You know those arguments you always have with your significant other?
The ones where you both argue about the exact same thing in the exact same way and get nowhere?
(You load the dishwasher wrong… and you spend too much money!)
They might be trivial at the start, but they will inevitably fester and threaten the strength of the relationship over time.
We might nod our heads and agree with that, but when we start trying to think about how to communicate differently—in a way that builds a relationship rather than tearing it down—we get stuck.
We feel like we’re destined to argue about the same thing for eternity.
Here’s the good news, friends: there’s always a way out.*
In fact, that’s exactly what Mollie Eliasof told me last week when she joined me over on Instagram to talk all about relationships.
Mollie is a couples therapist and relationship expert who specializes in helping power couples maximize their success in love and...
You know that loungewear set from Target that every single fashion influencer in the world just can’t stop talking about right now?
(Yes, that one).
And even though you do an eye roll every time you see it posted, you start to secretly wonder whether you should get it?
And then you add it to your cart?
All because you were told you needed it again and again and again…?
Since I just proved to you the magic of constant repetition, I’m back here again to tell you about how essential LinkedIn is for you and your career (even if you’re not job searching right now).
I know I’ve talked about it before, but I’m so convinced that it's worth your time to know how to use LinkedIn that I begged marketing consultant and LinkedIn expert Ash Kennedy of Creative Freedom Social Marketing to share with me her best LinkedIn strategies so that you’d have everything you needed to make your profile stand out.
Before we dive...
I was listening to a podcast a few months ago, and one of the guests shared a story that made me laugh and feel understood all at once.
She explained that she and her husband had some repairs done on their home and somehow the hot water heater “on” switch was wired to the backyard flood lights.
Not the end of the world, but if they wanted to take a hot shower, they had to turn on the backyard lights.
Now, there was an easy fix to this: a two-minute call to the electrician, asking for a quick visit to get things rewired.
But, as she admitted, she didn’t make this call for six months and spent that time explaining to multiple guests that if they wanted a hot shower they had to head downstairs and turn on the lights before heading back upstairs to the shower.
That’s the part that made me laugh.
How many times have I also put off a two-minute task and ended up dealing with some annoying workaround because that two minute thing felt like TOO MUCH WORK?
For a long time, I didn’t know what to do with “important papers.”
You know – tax documents, medical receipts, my birth certificate.
I tried stacking everything on my desk/the kitchen table for long time… but that just morphed into a huge pile of random things. (Birthday cards, tags I cut off clothes… you name it).
I then tried stacking everything in a specific corner of my desk – and while that was more successful, I still had to dig through the entire stack every time I was looking for specific piece of paper.
I finally found a foolproof (and EASY to maintain) solution – you ready for it?
I bought an actual file box (with folders and hanging dividers).
And then I created folders for each category of important papers.
And then I filed the papers in the correct folder and added new papers to the folders when I got them.
And I never had to go searching for an important paper again.
Yes, it’s that easy!
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I see you.
You work HARD. You’re getting all As – whether that be in your classes or the comments your boss makes on your job reviews.
You do all the things. You volunteer, you go to networking events, you show up on time – no excuses.
And in the last few weeks, everything has fallen apart.
You were just starting to look for a job—the next step in your career—or you were thinking of looking for a job in the next few months, after graduation.
And now the playbook for “how to get a job” seems outdated at best and totally irrelevant at worst.
You don’t want to sit at home and just binge Netflix or clean out your closet – but you’re not sure if there’s a better option right now.
I’m here to tell you that there is.
I’ve spent the last decade of my life working across the public, private, and non-profit sector and now I help young adults navigate the non-sexy but essential parts of life –...
Don’t have time to cook an “impressive” dinner every night, but still want to cook healthy (and tasty) meals?
Or maybe you do have time (hey there, COVID-19), but feel stuck in a rut and don’t have any ideas what to cook… or don’t know what to cook with what you have?
I’ve got you, girl!
I’ve spent the past year trying to create a “go-to” list of recipes that my husband and I can enjoy and make quickly and I'm here to share them with you today.
I’ve listed out five of our favorites below, but I also wanted to share some quick round-ups from my favorite cooking blogs of meals you can make with pantry staples. I know getting to the store might not be possible with COVID-19 and/or money might be tight, so I want to give you some “right now” resources, too:
15 Pantry Recipes for Emergency Preparedness (Budget Bytes)
50 Pantry-Friendly Recipes and Substitutions that Work (Cookie & Kate –...
I recently sent the below email to the members of my email list, sharing my best strategies for working/studying from home and the response was so good that I wanted to post it here for you to read, too.
Let me know if you have any questions – I’d love to help you brainstorm some strategies for your specific situation. Just send me a quick note at [email protected] and I'll get back to you ASAP.
(And if you want “in” on my email list – where I share really practical and timely tips like this each week - just add your name right here).
Ok, here are my Top Five Tips for working from home:
1: Wear pants
Ok, I know you probably don’t walk around without pants on.
But I know the temptation to wear yoga pants/sweatpants when you’re working from home is strong.
Do not give in.
Why? When you wear clothes that you might wear around the house after work on a Tuesday or on lazy Saturday morning, you’re essentially telling your brain that...
Have you ever heard the word “budget” and thought something like this?
Budget = something I know I should have, but I don’t know how to create it and/or make it work for me in this season of my life… I guess I’ll figure it out another day.
If so, you’re not alone (pinky promise!).
Today we’re going to start a conversation about budgets – what they are, why you need one, and why (if you need one), so many people don’t have them.
We’ll wrap up with four simple things you can do to start creating a budget that works for you (you know I’m all about the action steps).
(Oh – one quick thing: if you want a full run down of exactly how to create a budget from scratch, you might find my budgeting masterclass helpful. It includes a powerful excel spreadsheet with built in formulas to make everything super easy for you.)
Ok, let’s lay the foundation and jump right in.
What is a budget?
Ask me what it feels like to search for a job and I’ll tell you it feels more impossible than finding a self-tanner that never streaks.
(Or do I just have bad luck in the self-tanner department? Email me if you have one that’s idiot proof. Please and thank you).
Regardless: finding a job is hard, exhausting, and often discouraging work.
That’s why we’re going to continue our job search series and spend some time today talking about six ways you can use LinkedIn in your job search process.
Ok, let’s dive right in so you can get back to job searching ASAP!
1: Include a profile photo and a banner photo
There are two images you can customize on your LinkedIn profile: your profile photo and the “background banner” photo that appears behind your profile photo.
Customize both so you stand out to...
The trashcan still hadn’t been emptied.
The pan I wanted to use was on the stove, soaking in water, just like it had been yesterday.
And the bathroom was gross.
Living with roommates was fun, but some days it just got on my nerves.
I couldn’t understand why some people just didn’t value a clean house as much as I did.
Or how they could be so loud when getting ready in the morning.
Can you relate?
I lived with roommates for nearly ten years and today I’m sharing five strategies that have helped me immensely in learning to enjoy living with them, rather than just tolerate it.
If you’re looking to move in with friends or just hoping to improve your relationship with your current roommates, grab your beverage of choice and keep reading!
(And make sure you read until the end, because I share my thoughts on what to do if you live with a roommate who just doesn’t care).
Strategy 1: Agree on a plan for chores – and write it down.
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I'd love to pop in your inbox from time to time with genuine notes and helpful tips--and maybe a few gifs--to encourage you as you figure out all that non-sexy but essential life stuff.
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